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Prostate Cancer Really Sucks - Pt3

 The wait....      As I have written, I was officially diagnosed on my birthday.  That really sucked to get that news on a day meant to be a celebration of life! My wife and I discussed this diagnosis and the implications on our relationship.  To be honest and completely frank, we (or at least me) were enjoying our second relationship.  The kids have grown and out of the house.  We had our weekend getaways and enjoyed our time together.  These were very difficult conversations.  Our marriage was long standing and we have always been together through rough times, but this was the biggest mountain to climb, and the largest elephant in the room.  It was so large that there was no avoiding it!  I will say that communication is the ONLY way to get through this with your partner.  Without those discussions and sharing feelings, the relationship WILL suffer! Now that we had a decision, we asked the doctor about a second op...